Grieving – with Hope

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Abbotsford Evangelical Free Church
a.k.a. “Abby Free
– our LPD Church of the Week

Abby Free was planted in 1962, when the population of Abbotsford was just 20,326 people.  Today the population is more than 141,000. The community has been known as the “Bible Belt,” and more recently,on occasion, as the “bullet belt,” due to some violence related to the drug trade.

Abby Free has changed with the community, and over the years has had to retool and revision, all the while being true to its mission.

Pastor Randy and Allan Lemke came to serve as youth pastor in 2001, and in 2010, became Lead Pastor.  Don and Carolyn Murdoch serve as Assistant Pastor, and Karl and Mandi Owens serve as Worship Director.

As the church looks to the future, next month, they will be launching a name change to “Mill Lake Church.” This reflects their desire to be “salt and light” to the neighbourhood in which God has placed them. They state:

AbbyFree exists to make the hope of Jesus known. 

We love our City in the Country and want to serve the people of Abbotsford.

We are located in the Mill Lake area and seek to love and serve our neighbourhood by having a presence here. AbbyFree Church is a group of people who will make you feel welcome just by walking through our doors. We hope you will visit us and find out for yourself!

Abby Free/Mill Lake Church posts their weekly services online, and can be viewed by visiting their website at: https://www.abbyfree.com/
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Grieving – with Hope
As the Apostle Paul writes to the Thessalonian Christians, he encourages them with the words, “Brothers and sisters, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope.” (1 Thess. 4:13). 

These words have been a comfort to many of us as we have faced the death of a loved one. Both grief and hope are real. For we who have hope in Christ, our grief is tempered with the hope and promised that because of Jesus, our “good-bye,” is only, “good-bye for now.”

Both grief and hope are real.

At this time of COVID-19, many are grieving – and many are grieving without hope. It is not a grief of the loss of life, but the loss of what we have known and loved – in community – at work – in church – in family…

An article this week in the National Post perhaps captures how many are thinking. business-and-health-leaders-accuse-trudeau-of-shifting-the-goalposts-for-reopening-economy

While I do not speak for or against the article or the letter, it does speak to what many are feeling … a loss of hope.  “The goalposts have changed.” People worked to, “flatten the curve,” and hoped to get through the virus challenge in short order. Now, we are instructed to isolate for the long term, until a treatment or vaccine is found. This could be a year or more.

In your church, as in most churches, there is a range of emotions about our current pandemic, Some people are really fearful, based upon media reports and projected scenarios. Some are fearful for their own health and that of loved ones. Some believe that we have overreacted to COVID-19, and long to “get back to normal.” Pastors can feel caught between those who press to keep “shut down,” and those who want to “open up.” In the end, both will be displeased.

For those who long to “get back to normal,” it will be to a “new” normal. Worship can at this time have a maximum of 50 people, and these will need to keep a social distance of six feet from one another. Even if we resume smaller worship services, it will not be the experience that people have missed. No “full” church to worship with. No handshakes. No hugs. No gathering around the coffee carafes after the service…

As servant-leaders of local churches, it is important to acknowledge the grief that many in our churches are experiencing. DAVID C. WANG, professor of psychology and pastoral counseling at Biola University, pastor of One Life City Church in Fullerton, California writes of this in his article, “Three Keys to Navigating Trauma, Grief and Loss from Covid-19 in Your Church.” 3-keys-to-navigating-trauma-grief-and-loss-from-covid-19-in-your-church

Just as those we serve may have feelings of grief, we may be experiencing our own uncertainties and questions as we move through this time of pandemic.  Aaron Earls, online editor of Facts & Trends, speaks to these in his article,  “Nine Concerns Pastors Have About Their Church Gathering Again.” 9-concerns-pastors-have-about-their-church-gathering-again/

Recognizing our own concerns and the grief among those we serve, how can we bring a message of hope? 

  1. Let’s acknowledge our sense of loss, and make room for this.
  2. How do our online services  and messages minister to those who may be feeling loss and grief?  Let’s not be”tone deaf” to what people are processing.
  3. As we cannot return to what we have known as normal any time soon, what can we do with, “what we can do?” Let’s look for opportunities and make the best of what we can do! How can we minister to children? To seniors? To one another?
  4. Typically, the Sunday morning service has been the focal point of our churches. Now it will need to be small groups and smaller gatherings. When we can gather together as a church body in the future, what will be our purpose, and how will we invest this time? Perhaps Sunday will be a celebration of the life and ministry of small groups.
  5. Christ will build his church. Our role is to be faithful to His call, to abide in Him and to be attentive to his voice. Nothing that has happened, is happening or can happen can separate us from the love of God that is ours in Christ Jesus our Lord. (Romans 8:31-39). Let’s encourage one another with these truths.

Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ,  through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand. And we boast in the hope of the glory of God.  Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance;  perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us. (Romans 5:1-5).

 

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EFCC National Conference – Virtual

June 27, 2020

With COVID-19 response, we are unable to physically meet for EFCC National Conference this year. We will be meeting for an abbreviated conference on June 27. Here is a letter from George Budd, EFCC Board of Directors Chair:

Letter_from_the_Chairperson_of_the_EFCC_Board_of_Directors.pdf

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Coach’s Corner – with Steve Sharpe, LPD Missionary of Church Planting  and Development (srsharpe@shaw.ca). Steve shares  coaching insights for pastors, church leaders and church planters. This week, he writes on, “ABC DISCIPLE MAKING: C is for COACHING.” Here is the link: TRUST_15May2020.01.pdf
 

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Please remember all of our LPD Missionaries (and all missionaries) at this time. 
Here is the link to their information and how to support them:
https://www.lpd-efcc.ca/donations/

LPD Missionaries
Dan and Sharon Williams (Osoyoos Project)
Steve and Gillian Sharpe (Missionary of Church Planting Development)
Jonathan and Harmony Ng (Inner City Ministry)
Noel and Lynda Macasaet (New Living Assembly)
Jorge and Emily Lin (Church of All Nations/”new”New West EFC)
Joshua and Nicole Fast (Priceless Youth Ministry)
Allen and Hannah Chang (Steveston Project)

Daniel and Joyce Wong (Steveston Project)

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HELPFUL INFORMATION FOR CHURCHES REGARDING COVID-19
We in the LPD are here to serve you and your church through this time.  Josephine has been continually updating our information, so has the most current information available on resources available to you and your church in this time. Currently, six LPD Churches have successfully applied for assistance, with our help. There are several resources available  for Non-profits, and we will be glad to share these with you. 

  • Please check with us regarding resources regarding “restarting” and regathering in your church, and regulations for doing this. We are preparing a policy template for churches.
  • Please also contact our LPD Office for information for Online Giving Options for your church – helpful, especially when your church cannot physically gather.
  • Here is something from our friends at the Christian Missionary Alliance about churches “restarting” ministry: BC_Restart_Plan_Churches_May_2020.pdf  *
  • Here is another resource from our friends at the Canadian Baptists: http://CBAC_Resource_2020.pdf 771 KB • Download *
  • * Please note: The above resources, while helpful may not represent the best and most current information. Please connect with us for up to date information and resources.

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Please pray for:

  • Our Pastor and Staff  “Virtual Cruise” on Wednesday, May 27.  May this be a time of encouragement and growth for us all. You are welcome to join us
  • One another, as we all learn to minister in this “new season” of life and ministry. May the Word of God go forward, and messages be heard online by those who might not choose to attend church. May God also enable us to minister to our neighbours. I am thankful for the way that the Gospel is being heard by many who  might not come to church but will listen online.
  • First responders and our political leaders through this time. May they humbly seek the Lord for His wisdom.
  • Our LPD Board. Board members are Randy Lemke (Allana) – Chair, Patrick Chan (Sarah) – Property and Finance, Ben Crumback (Anna) – Island Liaison, Charles Labun (Carolyn) – Church Board Liaison, Rob Stewart (Karen) – D.S., Tim Stewart (Emily) – Innovative Ministries, Sang Hyun (Sam) Cho (Eun Young) – Korean Church Liaison; Phil Yung (Grace) – Church Planting, Philip Leung (Karen) – Chinese Church Liaison and Josephine Papp, LPD Office Administrator – Recording Secretary.
  • Town + Field Church, in their time of pastoral transition. Pray for Matt (Val) Myers and team, as they provide interim leadership. Pray for their pastoral search process. http://townandfield.ca/leadpastorhiring/.
  • Fort Langley EFC, in their search for an Associate Pastor of Youth and Young Adults. https://www.flefc.org/news/hiring-associate-pastor-of-youth-and-young-adults–210

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EFCCM Missionaries to Kenya
Henry and Kim Ngugi

We are excited and thankful for how God has led and called Henry and Kim Ngugi to serve with EFCCM, and we invite you to join in their prayer and support team. They trust to travel to Kenya to begin this ministry in September. Here is a link to their newsletter, “The Daily Move.”

TheDailyMoveMarch.pdf

Website:

https://movedchurch.org/

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